In January of 2009 I was at a personal crisis with health, career, and family stress. I knew that I could not continue on my life path in the same way without losing something. I felt like I was near the breaking point and my marriage and family were at risk. I weighed almost 200 lbs, wore a size 38 pants, and couldn’t walk up stairs without getting winded. My hair was always greasy and I was unhappy, mostly because of my appearance and health risks that I had developed. While only about 30 lbs overweight, in the military that made me the fat guy. My single biggest fear was diabetes. The family history, my lifestyle, and my weight made me worried that every time I had blood work done that the results might indicate diabetes.
I realized the changes were within my control, and no matter how many external factors contributed to my choices to that point, I was to blame for my health. In February 2009, I quit smoking and chewing tobacco (I haven’t had any since but still occasionally enjoy a cigar). I tried to develop a workout routine but while at sea I was only able to manage 2-3 workouts a week.
In May 2009, I transferred off of the USS Annapolis at 195 lbs. The job change relieved most of the professional stress and gave me the time I needed to decompress mentally. I started a regular workout routine and set a goal to lose 20 lbs. At first, I could only run short distances at >11min/mile. Others in my office were into cycling so I began to use my mountain bike to ride to work occasionally. It was seven miles each way and took over 40 minutes when I started (about 10 mph). I enjoyed swimming some because it was low impact - 1000 yards was a long workout at the time.
By October 2009 I had worked up to running 5-6 miles at a time, but it hurt and took a few days to recover. A friend from the USS Annapolis who had started a very similar journey at the same time was preparing for his first marathon in November and was running 20 miles. He had decided to do triathlon training after the marathon and was going to race in 2010. Since I am a goal oriented person, triathlons seemed perfect for me to keep a varied workout schedule and continue on my fitness journey. Along the way my mental health had recovered and I was gaining satisfaction in all areas of my life.
The idea of competing in triathlons re-invigorated me. I bought a used road bike and continued to occasionally bike to work. I ran more often and faster. I swam more. By January 2010 I weighed 186 lbs and realized my workouts were not resulting in the weight loss I desired. I started to focus on my diet and, on the advice of my wife, finally began a food log in March. I ran a half marathon (the first in my life) on February 28, 2010. My goal was under 2 hours; I completed it in 1 hour 57 minutes (8:59/mile average pace). Goal met.
As Spring in New England arrived, my training intensity increased a bit. I worked out every day. My weekly averages were usually >800 calories burned a day from exercise. Forty-nine weeks after setting my 20 lb weight loss goal, I completed it. I am now at 171 lbs. I had to replace all of my pants with size 34’s. I recently completed a 2.7 mile race at a 6:59/mile pace (over 4 minutes per mile faster than a year earlier). Now the only family stress is when I haven’t worked out and feel cooped up – my wife sends me running to fix it.
My first triathlon was the Mystic River Valley sprint triathlon in Mystic, CT on June 6th. I wasn’t nervous, I was ready. I had been training for seven months. I completed the race in 1:20:19 which was 76/254 overall, 6/15 in my age group, and my family was there to cheer me on, including a new 2.5 week old daughter. By the way, that friend I mentioned ran the same race, also as his first triathlon, and placed 10th overall. I no longer worry about diabetes myself, however, I worry about the rest of my family and friends. So one week later, on June 13th, I biked 100 kilometers for the American Diabetes Association Tour de Cure. I raised over $500 for the ride and it was the longest bike ride I ever completed in one day. I specifically chose that event because of the significance diabetes played in my choice of fitness. June 17th was my second triathlon. I’m hooked and have races planned for about every 2-3 weeks through the summer.
I chose fitness.
Triathlon, Horseback riding, Hunting, Shooting, Farming, Scouts with my son.