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2008-06-19 3:33 PM
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Rynamite - 2008-06-19 3:30 PM

Sharkie - 2008-06-19 4:30 PM Here is a question for guys..  When you're dating a guy how can you tell if the relationship is going somewhere or if it's just about sex (for him)?

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Very much so. I couldn't agree more.
2008-06-19 3:34 PM
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2008-06-19 3:37 PM
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Sharkie - 2008-06-19 1:34 PM
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Rynamite - 2008-06-19 3:30 PM

Sharkie - 2008-06-19 4:30 PM Here is a question for guys..  When you're dating a guy how can you tell if the relationship is going somewhere or if it's just about sex (for him)?

Yes

Very much so. I couldn't agree more.

Don't make me hate men for the d-bags they are...

It's allways about sex.  The better question to ask is how to tell if it's ONLY about sex....

Didn't know you were dating....

2008-06-19 3:40 PM
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2008-06-19 3:41 PM
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Sharkie - 2008-06-19 1:40 PM
Aikidoman - 2008-06-19 1:37 PM
Sharkie - 2008-06-19 1:34 PM
mr2tony - 2008-06-19 1:33 PM
Rynamite - 2008-06-19 3:30 PM

Sharkie - 2008-06-19 4:30 PM Here is a question for guys..  When you're dating a guy how can you tell if the relationship is going somewhere or if it's just about sex (for him)?

Yes

Very much so. I couldn't agree more.

Don't make me hate men for the d-bags they are...

It's allways about sex.  The better question to ask is how to tell if it's ONLY about sex....

Didn't know you were dating....

ummmm i'm married so i'm sooooooooooo NOT dating..  gah..  I hate being the person at the office that everyone vents to for professional and personal problems.. 

ooohhhhhh, I get it, *wink, wink*.....

2008-06-19 3:42 PM
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2008-06-19 3:46 PM
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Sharkie - 2008-06-19 3:34 PM

mr2tony - 2008-06-19 1:33 PM
Rynamite - 2008-06-19 3:30 PM

Sharkie - 2008-06-19 4:30 PM Here is a question for guys..  When you're dating a guy how can you tell if the relationship is going somewhere or if it's just about sex (for him)?

Yes

Very much so. I couldn't agree more.

Don't make me hate men for the d-bags they are...



Just hate us for the dbags we strive to be.

Anyway to answer your question it's very simple. When the person wants to hang out only after 10 p.m. (if you get my drift) and never calls to go anywhere `out' for extended periods of time, then yes, he just wants one thing. If he never introduces you to his friends, then likely he only wants one thing. Back when I had FWBs as a single college guy I would TELL women up front `I don't like to be around you much, but you're good in the sexytimes so, you know, is that cool?'

Some were cool with it, others weren't.
2008-06-19 3:53 PM
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2008-06-19 3:58 PM
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Edited by misscullen 2008-06-19 4:00 PM
2008-06-19 4:02 PM
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Subject: RE: TAN #29 The case of the disappearing TAN
- 2008-06-19 1:53 PM
Sharkie - 2008-06-19 1:34 PM
mr2tony - 2008-06-19 1:33 PM
Rynamite - 2008-06-19 3:30 PM

Sharkie - 2008-06-19 4:30 PM Here is a question for guys..  When you're dating a guy how can you tell if the relationship is going somewhere or if it's just about sex (for him)?

Yes

Very much so. I couldn't agree more.

Don't make me hate men for the d-bags they are...

I find.. that even if the relationship starts off being only about sex,  that the boys eventually end up getting emotionally attached.

But this might be my experience only.

That sounds about right in general terms.....  Not really the case for me.  I fall in love too easy....  Just jump from relationship to relationship.  Thankfully, that has ended.  I'm staying put.

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2008-06-19 4:08 PM
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2008-06-19 4:11 PM
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2008-06-19 4:18 PM
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- 2008-06-19 3:53 PM

Sharkie - 2008-06-19 1:34 PM
mr2tony - 2008-06-19 1:33 PM
Rynamite - 2008-06-19 3:30 PM

Sharkie - 2008-06-19 4:30 PM Here is a question for guys..  When you're dating a guy how can you tell if the relationship is going somewhere or if it's just about sex (for him)?

Yes

Very much so. I couldn't agree more.

Don't make me hate men for the d-bags they are...

I find.. that even if the relationship starts off being only about sex,  that the boys eventually end up getting emotionally attached.

But this might be my experience only.



Maybe you're just that good.

I found that most of the women who SAID they were OK with the physical-only thing generally weren't. Why lie to yourself?
2008-06-19 4:20 PM
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2008-06-19 4:32 PM
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- 2008-06-19 4:20 PM

mr2tony - 2008-06-19 2:18 PM
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Sharkie - 2008-06-19 1:34 PM
mr2tony - 2008-06-19 1:33 PM
Rynamite - 2008-06-19 3:30 PM

Sharkie - 2008-06-19 4:30 PM Here is a question for guys..  When you're dating a guy how can you tell if the relationship is going somewhere or if it's just about sex (for him)?

Yes

Very much so. I couldn't agree more.

Don't make me hate men for the d-bags they are...

I find.. that even if the relationship starts off being only about sex,  that the boys eventually end up getting emotionally attached.

But this might be my experience only.

Maybe you're just that good. I found that most of the women who SAID they were OK with the physical-only thing generally weren't. Why lie to yourself?

Because not many people can handle it.  Or they wanted to be with you so bad they would take anything they could get.  But this is YOU we're talking about, so I can't really see that happening.



True. I can't see it either. But I'm humble like that.
2008-06-19 4:43 PM
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Subject: RE: TAN #29 The case of the disappearing TAN
Wow, I did some serious damage to my workload today.  Too much maybe.  I might be light tomorrow.....  Oh well.  The sense of accomplishment is worth it.


2008-06-19 4:47 PM
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- 2008-06-19 2:11 PM
Aikidoman - 2008-06-19 2:02 PM
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Sharkie - 2008-06-19 1:34 PM
mr2tony - 2008-06-19 1:33 PM
Rynamite - 2008-06-19 3:30 PM

Sharkie - 2008-06-19 4:30 PM Here is a question for guys..  When you're dating a guy how can you tell if the relationship is going somewhere or if it's just about sex (for him)?

Yes

Very much so. I couldn't agree more.

Don't make me hate men for the d-bags they are...

I find.. that even if the relationship starts off being only about sex,  that the boys eventually end up getting emotionally attached.

But this might be my experience only.

That sounds about right in general terms.....  Not really the case for me.  I fall in love too easy....  Just jump from relationship to relationship.  Thankfully, that has ended.  I'm staying put.

I wear my heart on my sleave, but it takes me a LONG time to fall in love. 

I like that.  It's nice to know how someone feels rather than guess because they feel like they have to cover it up because of some rule/time line.

You know all the certain rules like don't call too soon, too often, can't say certain things before a certain time has passed.  Need to wait to go to bed with someone after a certain number dates, certain amount of time.

Just do ALL of those things when the heart leads you to, IMO.  Don't force it into some kind of formula....

2008-06-19 4:52 PM
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Subject: RE: TAN #29 The case of the disappearing TAN
BOOBIES!
2008-06-19 4:58 PM
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crowny2 - 2008-06-19 2:52 PM BOOBIES!

Sorry, only works when BT hottie redhead chicks say it....  No interest....

2008-06-19 5:00 PM
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Subject: RE: TAN #29 The case of the disappearing TAN

We are in the TAN "horse winds" aka horse latitudes. - the doldrums.



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