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2011-08-09 3:15 PM

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After 16+ months on the market, dropping the price a grand total of $80K and ZERO offers, we are calling it on our house in New York.  (heck - we can't even get a renter)

I moved for work to Virginia and the past 16 months have been paying my mortgage, insurance, taxes, utilities, etc to keep the NY house on the market.  Even did an unexpected renovation when we had a pipe burst (and insurance denied the claim).

We just can't keep carrying the NY house, as thin monthly budgets have become negative monthly budgets with increases the cost of everything.  And frankly, we have no more room to move on the sale price of the house.

Today I downloaded all the paperwork for request for short sale and thus begin the short sale process.

Any COJ words of advice?  Pitfalls? 




2011-08-09 3:59 PM
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2011-08-09 4:42 PM
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AcesFull - 2011-08-09 3:59 PM If you are going to need a car or any other major purchase for which you will need a loan, you may want to buy it soon, as your credit will take a big hit.


x2 on what Aces said.

I also believe you have to be in default to request a short sale.  As stupid as it sounds the lender will not allow you to short sale if you are current on your payments.
2011-08-10 1:11 AM
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Vegas real estate is a mess.  We paid $353k for our house at the height of the bubble (as they like to call it) and quickly became $220 K plus under water by the end of last year.

We did a loan re structure with the first that helped a little, but then decided that it was all over for us.  We sited the home for sale and got nothing.  We called and cried, and called and cried and finally found an agent that specialized in short sales.

In two months it was over.  Sold for $130K.  Credit ding yes, but not that much.  We closed December 31 and are already getting credit offers in the mail.  The credit cards have already increrased those limits they decreased immediately after, and renting is actually pretty sweet.  I simply call the landlord for repairs or problems. 

Bank of America was a REAL PAIN.  One week before closing they started demanding more cash to them.  We played hard ball and warned them that what they were going to get was a set of keys and no money.  They finally backed down and we closed.

Be careful with your closing, as our property was our primary residence we ended up not liable for the balance thru some government declaration.  I made sure to get from both the first and second a statement of "payment less than total but accepted at payment in full" and a record of this statment on the credit report.  Some banks talk about taking the difference of sale and balance due and calling it earned income on a 1099 and then letting the IRS deal with it.  And we all know how much fun they are.

Good luck

 

 

2011-08-10 6:59 AM
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Find a good real estate lawyer.  They are invaluable in navigating the swamp that is the short-sale market.  They know how to get things moving too.
2011-08-10 8:21 AM
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Thanks.  All good advice.

Last year upgraded my wife's 2005 vehicle to a 2011 Toyota and I just traded in my 2000 Audi on a 2011 Toyota.  So we are set on the vehicle situation.

And as of August 1st, we officially went into "overdue" status - as friends of our did a short sale on their house and wasted about 9 months and 3 offers because the bank wouldn't talk to them about a short sale b/c they had been staying current on their mortgage.  So we knew that we had to be overdue (and take the credit score ding) if we wanted to do this.

Total shame too because we spent 5 years renovating that house from top to bottom, restoring a lot of the original features as the house was built in 1888.



2011-08-10 9:28 AM
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condorman - 2011-08-10 8:21 AM Thanks.  All good advice.

Last year upgraded my wife's 2005 vehicle to a 2011 Toyota and I just traded in my 2000 Audi on a 2011 Toyota.  So we are set on the vehicle situation.

And as of August 1st, we officially went into "overdue" status - as friends of our did a short sale on their house and wasted about 9 months and 3 offers because the bank wouldn't talk to them about a short sale b/c they had been staying current on their mortgage.  So we knew that we had to be overdue (and take the credit score ding) if we wanted to do this.

Total shame too because we spent 5 years renovating that house from top to bottom, restoring a lot of the original features as the house was built in 1888.

 

Asking for the bank to accept a short sale when you have two new cars in the garage is outrageous.  

2011-08-10 9:48 AM
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I am living this hell right now.

 

I know people that have had easy ones and ones that have been put through the ringer.

 

I wish that I got a lawyer from day one.

I actually have an offer, but I need to deal with some other BS.

 

Specific advice.

If you deal with Wells Fargo, verify, verify, and VERIFY everything that they say.

They have given me so much incorrect information it is unbeleivable.

I don't think most of it was them being shady.

I just think that many of their employees are idiots and would rather guess than admit that they don't know the answer.

2011-08-10 9:49 AM
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PeterAK - 2011-08-10 10:28 AM

condorman - 2011-08-10 8:21 AM Thanks.  All good advice.

Last year upgraded my wife's 2005 vehicle to a 2011 Toyota and I just traded in my 2000 Audi on a 2011 Toyota.  So we are set on the vehicle situation.

And as of August 1st, we officially went into "overdue" status - as friends of our did a short sale on their house and wasted about 9 months and 3 offers because the bank wouldn't talk to them about a short sale b/c they had been staying current on their mortgage.  So we knew that we had to be overdue (and take the credit score ding) if we wanted to do this.

Total shame too because we spent 5 years renovating that house from top to bottom, restoring a lot of the original features as the house was built in 1888.

 

Asking for the bank to accept a short sale when you have two new cars in the garage is outrageous.  



Walk a mile in my shoes and then pass judgment. 
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2011-08-10 10:07 AM
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condorman - 2011-08-10 9:49 AM
PeterAK - 2011-08-10 10:28 AM

condorman - 2011-08-10 8:21 AM Thanks.  All good advice.

Last year upgraded my wife's 2005 vehicle to a 2011 Toyota and I just traded in my 2000 Audi on a 2011 Toyota.  So we are set on the vehicle situation.

And as of August 1st, we officially went into "overdue" status - as friends of our did a short sale on their house and wasted about 9 months and 3 offers because the bank wouldn't talk to them about a short sale b/c they had been staying current on their mortgage.  So we knew that we had to be overdue (and take the credit score ding) if we wanted to do this.

Total shame too because we spent 5 years renovating that house from top to bottom, restoring a lot of the original features as the house was built in 1888.

 

Asking for the bank to accept a short sale when you have two new cars in the garage is outrageous.  



Walk a mile in my shoes and then pass judgment. 

+1

I'll throw out there to not worry about the credit aspect too much.  Credit scores come back very fast.  I had several apartment buildings that sucked is down 10 years ago and I had a Horrible credit score in the low 400's.  Once we got out from under the apartments and paid everything off our credit score was back in the mid 700's within 6 months.

Good luck, and I wish you the best.



2011-08-10 10:20 AM
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PeterAK - 2011-08-10 9:28 AM

condorman - 2011-08-10 8:21 AM Thanks.  All good advice.

Last year upgraded my wife's 2005 vehicle to a 2011 Toyota and I just traded in my 2000 Audi on a 2011 Toyota.  So we are set on the vehicle situation.

And as of August 1st, we officially went into "overdue" status - as friends of our did a short sale on their house and wasted about 9 months and 3 offers because the bank wouldn't talk to them about a short sale b/c they had been staying current on their mortgage.  So we knew that we had to be overdue (and take the credit score ding) if we wanted to do this.

Total shame too because we spent 5 years renovating that house from top to bottom, restoring a lot of the original features as the house was built in 1888.

 

Asking for the bank to accept a short sale when you have two new cars in the garage is outrageous.  



Why?

Have you tried to sell your house lately?
2011-08-10 10:47 AM
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SWIM2LIVE - 2011-08-10 1:11 AM

Some banks talk about taking the difference of sale and balance due and calling it earned income on a 1099 and then letting the IRS deal with it.  And we all know how much fun they are.

Good luck

 

 



I think that the government recently passed some legislation that makes it so they can't do this in the event of a short sale. It's important to verify this anyway just to be sure. That would suck to have to pay your tax rate on a couple hundred thousand dollars of income you didn't technically earn but were forgiven in a short sale.
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PeterAK - 2011-08-10 9:28 AM

condorman - 2011-08-10 8:21 AM Thanks.  All good advice.

Last year upgraded my wife's 2005 vehicle to a 2011 Toyota and I just traded in my 2000 Audi on a 2011 Toyota.  So we are set on the vehicle situation.

And as of August 1st, we officially went into "overdue" status - as friends of our did a short sale on their house and wasted about 9 months and 3 offers because the bank wouldn't talk to them about a short sale b/c they had been staying current on their mortgage.  So we knew that we had to be overdue (and take the credit score ding) if we wanted to do this.

Total shame too because we spent 5 years renovating that house from top to bottom, restoring a lot of the original features as the house was built in 1888.

 

Asking for the bank to accept a short sale when you have two new cars in the garage is outrageous.  

Why? Have you tried to sell your house lately?

I think his point is that two new cars does not demonstrate an attempt to live below one's means. But the bank will do what's best for them. I have not been in this position, so I'll try not to judge, as the OP has been making payments and keeping up the house for 16 months, and deserves some credit for that.

 



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2011-08-10 11:27 AM
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Can you rent it for a little under your mortgage and cover the difference?  I would rather rent my house at a small loss than deal with a short sale IF my budget could handle the loss.  Not knowing anything about your situation try to reduce you budget as much as possible by cutting out the things you really don't need, get a second job, etc. but please try your best to not short sale.  I hurts you, the neighbors (it reduced the value of their home), and all of us that have to pay extra fees to the banks to cover their losses.

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csharp1171 - 2011-08-10 11:27 AM  but please try your best to not short sale.  I hurts you, the neighbors (it reduced the value of their home), and all of us that have to pay extra fees to the banks to cover their losses.

and all of those who have investements/pensions/IRA's etc invested in funds which make up a majority of the stock ownership of these banks.

Its not simply the "banks" money you're talking about. 

2011-08-10 12:21 PM
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csharp1171 - 2011-08-10 12:27 PM Can you rent it for a little under your mortgage and cover the difference?  I would rather rent my house at a small loss than deal with a short sale IF my budget could handle the loss.  Not knowing anything about your situation try to reduce you budget as much as possible by cutting out the things you really don't need, get a second job, etc. but please try your best to not short sale.  I hurts you, the neighbors (it reduced the value of their home), and all of us that have to pay extra fees to the banks to cover their losses.


valid points.  the house is in NY, we moved to VA.  (and I won't even go into reasons for moving - lets just say my former boss is now serving 20 years in a Federal prison and we spent 18 months scrapping buy to survive until we were able to move from NY to VA to find respectable employment).

For the past 14 months, we moved the whole family into a tiny townhouse because the rent was cheap enough that we could cover the NY mortgage, taxes, utilities, etc. and survive.  That included getting rid of my car and buying a 2000 Audi (and praying that nothing went wrong with it).  The only splurge was upgrading my wife's SUV to a minivan because we were making a lot of trips to NY for the property and needed a reliable car.

The carrying costs for the NY house were so ridiculous that my total budget for all living expenses in Richmond Virginia equaled my carrying costs for the NY house.  We've lived one major financial disaster away from Ramen noodles the whole past year to carry this house and "do the right thing."  No splurges, no vacations, no savings, no 401(k), nothing.

And we have had the house listed for rent concurrent with the sale.  The problem is that there is no rental market in our town for the same reason there are no buyers in our town.  And we've had it listed for rent such that I'd take a $600 per month ding.

After 14+ months, we just made the decision that we had to walk away from the property.  We've done everything we can to sell it aside from draining my retirement accounts to short sale without the banks.

And around the time we decided to short sale it (including extensive discussions with our realtor), I took my 2000 Audi in to the repair shop.  The list of things wrong on the car (include non-functioning a/c) made it so I was going to have to sink WAY MORE $$ into the car than it was worth.  And since Toyota was running a great deal on new cars w/ 2 years free maintenance, I seized that opportunity.

I would love to rent the house, but there is just no interest.  And if I knew that I had to carry the house for a few more months and then it would sell, I'd do that in a heartbeat.  But 16 months on the market and paying a NY Mortgage and rent in VA is where I call uncle.

(oh, and as for "hurting my neighbors" - I have 2 houses within spitting distance that are sitting empty as bank foreclosures - ship sailed on that one already)
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condorman - 2011-08-10 12:21 PM

csharp1171 - 2011-08-10 12:27 PM Can you rent it for a little under your mortgage and cover the difference?  I would rather rent my house at a small loss than deal with a short sale IF my budget could handle the loss.  Not knowing anything about your situation try to reduce you budget as much as possible by cutting out the things you really don't need, get a second job, etc. but please try your best to not short sale.  I hurts you, the neighbors (it reduced the value of their home), and all of us that have to pay extra fees to the banks to cover their losses.


valid points.  the house is in NY, we moved to VA.  (and I won't even go into reasons for moving - lets just say my former boss is now serving 20 years in a Federal prison and we spent 18 months scrapping buy to survive until we were able to move from NY to VA to find respectable employment).

For the past 14 months, we moved the whole family into a tiny townhouse because the rent was cheap enough that we could cover the NY mortgage, taxes, utilities, etc. and survive.  That included getting rid of my car and buying a 2000 Audi (and praying that nothing went wrong with it).  The only splurge was upgrading my wife's SUV to a minivan because we were making a lot of trips to NY for the property and needed a reliable car.

The carrying costs for the NY house were so ridiculous that my total budget for all living expenses in Richmond Virginia equaled my carrying costs for the NY house.  We've lived one major financial disaster away from Ramen noodles the whole past year to carry this house and "do the right thing."  No splurges, no vacations, no savings, no 401(k), nothing.

And we have had the house listed for rent concurrent with the sale.  The problem is that there is no rental market in our town for the same reason there are no buyers in our town.  And we've had it listed for rent such that I'd take a $600 per month ding.

After 14+ months, we just made the decision that we had to walk away from the property.  We've done everything we can to sell it aside from draining my retirement accounts to short sale without the banks.

And around the time we decided to short sale it (including extensive discussions with our realtor), I took my 2000 Audi in to the repair shop.  The list of things wrong on the car (include non-functioning a/c) made it so I was going to have to sink WAY MORE $$ into the car than it was worth.  And since Toyota was running a great deal on new cars w/ 2 years free maintenance, I seized that opportunity.

I would love to rent the house, but there is just no interest.  And if I knew that I had to carry the house for a few more months and then it would sell, I'd do that in a heartbeat.  But 16 months on the market and paying a NY Mortgage and rent in VA is where I call uncle.

(oh, and as for "hurting my neighbors" - I have 2 houses within spitting distance that are sitting empty as bank foreclosures - ship sailed on that one already)


Sounds like you're just making a rash decision without considering all your options and thinking about the effects your decisions will have on other people.
2011-08-10 12:34 PM
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PeterAK - 2011-08-10 9:28 AM

condorman - 2011-08-10 8:21 AM Thanks.  All good advice.

Last year upgraded my wife's 2005 vehicle to a 2011 Toyota and I just traded in my 2000 Audi on a 2011 Toyota.  So we are set on the vehicle situation.

And as of August 1st, we officially went into "overdue" status - as friends of our did a short sale on their house and wasted about 9 months and 3 offers because the bank wouldn't talk to them about a short sale b/c they had been staying current on their mortgage.  So we knew that we had to be overdue (and take the credit score ding) if we wanted to do this.

Total shame too because we spent 5 years renovating that house from top to bottom, restoring a lot of the original features as the house was built in 1888.

 

Asking for the bank to accept a short sale when you have two new cars in the garage is outrageous.  

X2, not sure how the bank, it's investors and your neighbors are responsible.  While I have not walked in your shoes, it seems that buying new cars just prior to telling the bank to shove it is a bit unfair.

2011-08-10 12:47 PM
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I think you are doing the right thing here and hopefully the bank will see that. It seems like after all of the hard work you have done to try and get it sold/rented and kept it maintaned you are left with a few options - short sale it or hand the keys over to the bank and walk away from it. At least with the Short sale the bank gets some money and does not get saddled with realestate/non liquid inventory.

Right now I am not sure how much harm a short saled house will do to your local market/neighbors that has not already been done. As long as the property is in good shape and not allowed to become and eye sore then property value, I would think, would not be overly effected by a short saled home. Good luck with it and hope things turn around for you soon!



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csharp1171 - 2011-08-10 11:27 AM

I hurts you, the neighbors (it reduced the value of their home), and all of us that have to pay extra fees to the banks to cover their losses.

I am addmitedly no expert, but the house across the street from me went into foreclosure, then the bank went under, so it was sold via government blind auction for WAY under what anything in the area was going for... this was about a year ago.

I went to re-finance my hosue a few months ago, assuming the worst that my property value would have taken a sharp hit, but it was appraised at slightly higher than when I bought 5 years ago.

Just one example, but that kind of thing did not affect my property value.

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Batlou - 2011-08-10 1:34 PM
PeterAK - 2011-08-10 9:28 AM

condorman - 2011-08-10 8:21 AM Thanks.  All good advice.

Last year upgraded my wife's 2005 vehicle to a 2011 Toyota and I just traded in my 2000 Audi on a 2011 Toyota.  So we are set on the vehicle situation.

And as of August 1st, we officially went into "overdue" status - as friends of our did a short sale on their house and wasted about 9 months and 3 offers because the bank wouldn't talk to them about a short sale b/c they had been staying current on their mortgage.  So we knew that we had to be overdue (and take the credit score ding) if we wanted to do this.

Total shame too because we spent 5 years renovating that house from top to bottom, restoring a lot of the original features as the house was built in 1888.

 Asking for the bank to accept a short sale when you have two new cars in the garage is outrageous.  

X2, not sure how the bank, it's investors and your neighbors are responsible.  While I have not walked in your shoes, it seems that buying new cars just prior to telling the bank to shove it is a bit unfair.

Telling a Bank to shove it is unfair?  I forgot that the banks treat their customers so fairly that they deserve our outermost respect

I hope the OP does what is best for him, his family and his future.  Being unfair to a bank that helped create this mess we have in the housing market would not take my sleep away for a single second.

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Cuetoy - 2011-08-10 12:43 PM
Batlou - 2011-08-10 1:34 PM
PeterAK - 2011-08-10 9:28 AM

condorman - 2011-08-10 8:21 AM Thanks.  All good advice.

Last year upgraded my wife's 2005 vehicle to a 2011 Toyota and I just traded in my 2000 Audi on a 2011 Toyota.  So we are set on the vehicle situation.

And as of August 1st, we officially went into "overdue" status - as friends of our did a short sale on their house and wasted about 9 months and 3 offers because the bank wouldn't talk to them about a short sale b/c they had been staying current on their mortgage.  So we knew that we had to be overdue (and take the credit score ding) if we wanted to do this.

Total shame too because we spent 5 years renovating that house from top to bottom, restoring a lot of the original features as the house was built in 1888.

 Asking for the bank to accept a short sale when you have two new cars in the garage is outrageous.  

X2, not sure how the bank, it's investors and your neighbors are responsible.  While I have not walked in your shoes, it seems that buying new cars just prior to telling the bank to shove it is a bit unfair.

Telling a Bank to shove it is unfair?  I forgot that the banks treat their customers so fairly that they deserve our outermost respect

I hope the OP does what is best for him, his family and his future.  Being unfair to a bank that helped create this mess we have in the housing market would not take my sleep away for a single second.



I agree with your sentiment that the OP should do what is best for his family.  But in this case it seems that there is a disconnect in the market where the house is versus sale options.  I don't really feel that one can blame the bank for this.  But as I said do what is right for you.
2011-08-10 2:59 PM
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Cuetoy - 2011-08-10 1:43 PM
Batlou - 2011-08-10 1:34 PM
PeterAK - 2011-08-10 9:28 AM

condorman - 2011-08-10 8:21 AM Thanks.  All good advice.

Last year upgraded my wife's 2005 vehicle to a 2011 Toyota and I just traded in my 2000 Audi on a 2011 Toyota.  So we are set on the vehicle situation.

And as of August 1st, we officially went into "overdue" status - as friends of our did a short sale on their house and wasted about 9 months and 3 offers because the bank wouldn't talk to them about a short sale b/c they had been staying current on their mortgage.  So we knew that we had to be overdue (and take the credit score ding) if we wanted to do this.

Total shame too because we spent 5 years renovating that house from top to bottom, restoring a lot of the original features as the house was built in 1888.

 Asking for the bank to accept a short sale when you have two new cars in the garage is outrageous.  

X2, not sure how the bank, it's investors and your neighbors are responsible.  While I have not walked in your shoes, it seems that buying new cars just prior to telling the bank to shove it is a bit unfair.

Telling a Bank to shove it is unfair?  I forgot that the banks treat their customers so fairly that they deserve our outermost respect

I hope the OP does what is best for him, his family and his future.  Being unfair to a bank that helped create this mess we have in the housing market would not take my sleep away for a single second.

Agreed, the OP needs to do what is best for his family.  Having said that, when I bought my house and signed my contract to pay back the loan this was not done at gun point.  I agreed to terms based on current market value of house and rate at which I would repay.  The banks served only as enablers to our bad decisions allowing us to over extend ourselves.  I was qualified for a loan on a house almost 2.5 times that of which I bought.  No idea how they calculated that because I would have certainly been a slave to my home and the bank had I hit that price point.

Both of my cars are older than the ones the OP traded in and one is sitting in the garage not running at the moment.  Like the OP, it's also an Audi and the cost to repair is really high, will do the repairs myself to save a grand, I am not a mechanic but hopefully Google will get me through it. Would like to buy a new car or two but current economic downturns suggest large purchases should be a cash and carry transaction until things stablize. 

 

 

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