Subject: RE: Yet another WWCOJD ... Left Brain - 2012-11-19 12:25 PM I would not share my elk with those people. Oh, that made me laugh! Thanks for that! As expected, the old guy is up to his manipulative ways, offering to fess up to his wife (and name my friend by name as someone he wants to "date" but not admitting a two-and-a-half-year affair), blaming me for making her question him, and downright being mean to my friend ("I always figured you'd decide I wasn't rich, young or handsome enough for you.") Since they still work together, a clean break isn't totally possible, but they're still texting good nights, etc. He's asked her to meet with him after work today to talk. I swear, when normal people get dumped, they accept it! This guy just won't STOP! It's like he's bullying/harassing her into staying in a "relationship" with him. I did share with her my opinion on how he's acting (playing the victim, bullying, etc), but now I have to back off. This is not my fight. I have to resist the urge to coach her through this. I said my piece and it's time to back out. |