Friend, more than friend, not a friend??? HELP!

I'm no mastermind, but this might just work.  Well, except for the laughing at the end, of course. 

Wow.

He was humiliated and is probably doubting his own instincts. He was probably very excited about the ski trip and worked up his courage and wen't through about a thousand lines and ways to broach the topic. When he did, he may have felt like he had made a total fool of himeslf and that in all likelyhood caused him to be a little pissed at you for giving him clues and then with no explanation slammed the door. Were I in his shoes, the most insulting thing would be that we were frineds and you didn't respect him enough to explain your actions.

My advise? Come totally clean with him, and do it now. I realize you "do not do this type of thing," but you are selling yourself short and him as well. I disagree with letting your actions speek for you: if that had happend to me, I would write you off. If you came back and started "flirting" with me again, I would close the door immediately feeling like you were a tease, couldn't make up your mind, weren't honest with me or weren't honest with yourself - or all of the above, but I wouldn't deal with it.

Call him, write an e-mail if you have to or write it in the sky, but do it. Life is too short and you are over thinking it.

Yes.

Also, make sure he knows this is from day one and not recent feelings.  Print out the entire story you told here if you want...it nails your feelings pretty well.  Tell him the ski trip he had you all atwitterpated and you know you acted like a buffoon.  If he hasn't written you off completely, that'll make him happy and away you go!

"good guy list" = friend zone.

He was making a comment that he knows he is not someone you want to be romantically involved with. Correct his misconception and forget all the other sly lines or half-baked "methods" of letting him know. Just tell him.

I'll make it easy for you.   Men are simple.  Tell him you can't stop thinking about him and you want him to ask you out on a date.   He will.  

As others have said, he felt he put in the perfect weekend and tried to end it by taking it to the next level.  It didn't work, so he has given up.   Now it is your move. 

Put something slinky on head over to his house.  On second thought go naked with a ternchcoat.  Bring some kind of food he likes.  Give him a  kissee when he answers the door.

Just kidding. But really. Men are soooooo simple. Being nice to him is all it will take. BE HONEST!  He will understand.

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Sounds like this will make a cute story someday if you can get it together and go talk to him.  Like others have said, MEN ARE SIMPLE.   Talk to him in person.  Seek him out.  We respond well to physical contact.  And wear a camisole.  Save the peanut butter for the second date.