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2010-08-05 8:13 AM

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Subject: Get busy living or get busy dying

I watched the movie Tuck Everlasting last weekend (yeah, somewhat of teeny-bopper chick-flick).  I then went out in the pool to float around soaking up the sun and think about it. In the movie, a family drinks from a magical spring and end up becoming immortal. They don’t age and they don’t die. They are just frozen in time. Now, at first thought this sounds awesome and my knee jerk reaction is, yeah, living forever would be awesome. But with a little deeper thought, I’m not so sure….

The very thing that makes life precious is its fragility and its finiteness. Time is limited for us. We know we probably have between 65 and 85 years depending on our genetics and how well we take care of our body. But life is about growing and changing. Rocks don’t change. They just are. They just exist. But living things change – constantly. They grow. And they die. Each phase of life is special – infancy, toddler, pre-schooler, grade-schooler, pre-teen, teenager, young adult, middle age adult, and senior adult. And with each phase come different experiences and relationships with the world around us and with other people. No phase is better than the other. Each is phase is unique. Each is special.  To be ‘stuck’ or frozen in any one of these periods would be tragic.

The most profound line from the movie was when the senior Tuck (the father) was talking to a 16 yo girl trying to convince her that living forever is not all it’s cracked up to be, "Don’t be afraid of death. Be afraid of the unlived life."


So what the heck does any of this have to do with triathlons?  I see taking on the challange of a triathlon as an experience that most people COULD do but very few people actually do.  And that is why I salute you fine folks for living large and not being afraid to put yourself out there and swing for the fence.

Cheers!

~Mike



2010-08-05 8:18 AM
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Great post Mike............thank you.
2010-08-05 8:25 AM
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I actually love your subject line.  I loved that quote from Shawshank Redemption
2010-08-05 8:35 AM
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Cheers!

Thanks for that.
2010-08-05 8:47 AM
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Your man card is in serious jeopardy for voluntarily watching a "teeny-bopper chick-flick". 

Mark

2010-08-05 8:53 AM
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Great subject line

X2 on your man card.Cool


2010-08-05 10:35 AM
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your subject line was exactly what I said to myself in April when I decided to get off the couch and start training for my first tri! great post... great sentiment!  since I did mine I've gotten 3 of my friends training with me (and already paid and signed up for) for a sprint tri in october, and my mother (overweight and diabetic) wanting to do a tri with me next year when she turns 50... it seems to be catching!
2010-08-05 1:19 PM
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Great post! Thanks and same to you.
Once you do a few races and surround yourself with triathletes it starts to seem like it's not that big of a deal. But your right, I could be sitting on my booty eating chocolate, ooops... I am.
Ok I'll try that again, I could make excuses every day but instead I tri  

2010-08-05 2:45 PM
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yeah, two versions of that one, both good.
2010-08-05 3:43 PM
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2010-08-05 4:05 PM
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Thanks, enjoyable read and perspective.

I especially liked this quote "Don’t be afraid of death. Be afraid of the unlived life."

one of the things I've always tried to live is "You'll regret the things you don't do in life more than the things you do"

Thanks again for posting!!!



2010-08-05 8:48 PM
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Good stuff.  And, it doesn't stop at tris.  There's lots of things that I still wanna do.  Some of them....I don't even know it, yet.

I have a phrase I also use....."Don't die wonderin".
2010-08-05 10:13 PM
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Thanks for reminding me why I keep tri-in'!!Cool
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