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2006-01-27 11:15 AM

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I found this in an old email form Triswimcoach. As my swimming gets better I try to read it to remind me of how far I have come in almost a year.


"An Open Letter to the Guy at the Pool This Morning
Once you caught your breath, it occurred to you that finishing even a short triathlon might be harder than you thought. After a few "laps" you thought, "I can't believe I'm so out of shape."

I saw you. You were at the pool this morning for the same reason you're reading this: you've been thinking about doing a triathlon. You haven’t swum since you were a kid, so you got up early and came to the pool at the Y before work. I knew as soon as I saw you. How did I know? I was you a year ago. I went through the same thing. The only reason middle aged guys who aren't particularly fit and who don't know the protocol for getting into a lane show up at the pool at the Y at 6:30 in the morning is because they're thinking of doing a triathlon. I've asked them. Every single one has answered in the affirmative.

At first you noticed that everyone was wearing skin tight Lycra suits and that the people your age seemed to be in a lot better shape than you. You realized that you may just look as out of place as you felt. Rather than just get in, you stood at the edge of the pool looking around for someone or something to tell you it was ok to get in a lane. Once the lifeguard or another swimmer explained that pool’s particular variation of lane etiquette, you got in and proceeded to slowly fight your way to the other end of the pool, turn around at the wall and make it most of the way back before standing up on the bottom out of breath and shocked at how hard it was.

Once you caught your breath, it occurred to you that finishing even a short triathlon might be harder than you thought. You tried a few more times, and after a few "laps" you got out, looked at the other people swimming so effortlessly back and forth and thought, "I can't believe I'm so out of shape."

This is when the decision gets made: Are you going to do a triathlon or not? Sometimes you go back to the pool for one or two more tries; usually you don't come back at all. I haven’t seen you back at the pool after 2 weeks. You’ve given up the idea of doing a triathlon.

If you gave up because swimming is too hard, that's too bad because you're wrong. It isn’t easy, but becoming passable isn’t all that tough. Swimming is different than cycling and running; starting from scratch, with no technique, you’re just not going to get very far. It's going to take you anywhere from 3 to 6 weeks of going to the pool at 2-3 times a week and swimming for 10 to 20 minutes in small chunks before you start to build anything like endurance. Six weeks, tops. It's really hard at first and then, after a few weeks, there's a breakthrough session where you feel like you can just keep swimming. And you do. You swim for half an hour straight, no breaks.

The feeling of being an outsider in an alien environment goes away right then. You feel as if you belong there. You are a swimmer. You don’t even feel silly walking through the locker room in Lycra jammers.

Read all you can about swimming technique, buy a book or DVD, or, even better, take some lessons. But don't stop trying because it seems ridiculously hard at first. Don't let those first few attempts stop you. Getting through those 3-6 weeks can be tough mentally and physically, but you can get through them.

You know the pictures you’ve seen of a race right before the start with all those triathlete swimmers standing around in wetsuits and colored swim caps? At least half of those people went through the exact same awkward first day at the pool that you had. They just decided not to let it stop them. They decided that triathlon is about overcoming mental and physical challenges, and swimming was number one on the list.

You can either be the guy who thought he might like to do a triathlon but gave up because swimming seemed too hard, or you can be one of those people who finished a triathlon despite those first few practice swims.

Go back to the pool."


2006-01-27 11:49 AM
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Someone put a similar open letter up here last year, good to be reminded and (as a newbie) encouraged to stick with it. I know I went several years of false starts at this swimming thing before I stuck with it on a dare. Peer pressure can be very powerful.
2006-01-27 12:41 PM
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That's the one and only article I've written here on BT . It's an expanded version of a post I made last year.

I subscribe to that newsletter, I'm surprised I missed this. And while I'm flattered that he thought enough of the article to republish it, I'm a bit disappointed that there was no attribution.

 

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And I'm really glad you got something out of it.  

2006-01-27 1:31 PM
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marmadaddy - 2006-01-27 9:41 AM

And while I'm flattered that he thought enough of the article to republish it, I'm a bit disappointed that there was no attribution.


Definitely write a letter to the newsletter editor. Credit needs to be given where credit is due!
2006-01-27 1:33 PM
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marmadaddy - 2006-01-27 12:41 PM

That's the one and only article I've written here on BT . It's an expanded version of a post I made last year.

I subscribe to that newsletter, I'm surprised I missed this. And while I'm flattered that he thought enough of the article to republish it, I'm a bit disappointed that there was no attribution.

Damn, I knew that it was familiar. Sucks that he didn't credit the source.

2006-01-27 1:37 PM
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Being a teacher I certainly would have sited my resources. We were just talking about that today in class. I really do think about the letter when I am in the pool and I see people unsure of them. Thanks again.


2006-01-27 1:38 PM
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By all accounts I've heard, Kevin is a decent straightup guy, as well as a good swim coach. I'm sure it was an oversight.
2006-01-27 1:50 PM
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...usnure of themselves. I guess I should have had someone proof my post.
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dboyle - 2006-01-27 1:37 PM Being a teacher I certainly would have sited my resources. .

 

You mean "cited",  perhaps? I just can't resist piling on.



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2006-01-27 2:18 PM
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No probelm. I can take it. Today's educational system has gone to crap.
2006-01-27 2:31 PM
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wow - i've never read anything like it - and i'm SO glad i just did. it has a powerful perspective and it has motivated me even more. thanks for posting and thanks to marmadaddy for writing it


2006-01-27 3:17 PM
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Cited or not cited.... I sent this to my brother who is taking on the challenge of joining me in my (and his) first triathlon this summer.  THANKS!!
2006-01-27 5:09 PM
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WOW
That was me 4 years ago!
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