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Do men like scars on women?
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2005-04-19 11:14 AM

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Subject: Do men like scars on women?
As a result of chaffing I have a couple of cuts that eventually turned into scars...A friend informed me that men only like scars on themselves...so I am taking an informal poll...no on the fence--a simple yes or no...(but, I'd like to hear opinions about your answer...)


2005-04-19 11:21 AM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?

I don't like scars on anyone per se, but then again I really want the girls I go out with to be active and do lots of sport, and if you do lots of sport of any kind you're going to get bumps & bashes that leave their mark long term. 

So while I don't like scars, I'm more attracted to a fit, athletic girl with some "warwounds" than an unfit lazy gril with skin from a Maybelene comercial.  The same goes for my scars - I've got marks on my hands, arms, chest and legs from climbing & cycling, and I'd rather not have them, but not enough for me to want to stop climbing & cycling and everything else I do.



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2005-04-19 11:21 AM
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Buttercup
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
Uh oh. It's not looking good for us tom-boy types.
2005-04-19 11:24 AM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
I have plenty of scars so and nobody ever says a thing to me about it. So I don't think I would care if a woman had any.

Mike
2005-04-19 11:26 AM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
Do I LIKE scars on women.. well.. not really..

Do I REALLY DISLIKE scars on women.. well.. not really.

My wife has some scars from surgery.. They certianly don't bother me but I don't go looking for them either when its time to do some tandem cross-training. (sorry.. maybe TMI)

ws

2005-04-19 11:26 AM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
andyc hit the nail on the head. I'm not exactly fond of my own scars, let alone anybody elses, but if they come with the package, you've got to accept them.


2005-04-19 11:27 AM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
Kind of like Tats...one or two, ok....multiple.....maybe not
2005-04-19 11:27 AM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?

If you've got a huge, poorly healed scar running from your right jawbone to your left temple, that's probably not a very positive thing, but if you're talking about a few minor scars on the legs or arms, no big deal.  In fact, I'm surprised that more women don't have tons of shaving-scars (since the bodybuilding contest I did, I have a profound respect for you women shaving for us guys!)

Men do tend to equate scars with 'war-wounds', but I see it more as a sign of aggressive action on the training/playing field...

2005-04-19 11:34 AM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
I neither like nor dislike scars on women.  What I dislike are piercings .... ugh .... it makes me cringe, but then again, I dislike that on both men and women!  Tattoos are also a turnoff for me.  I don't mind the odd little heart or whatever tattoo but some of these "Property of Hells Angels" type of body markings are very unappealing.
2005-04-19 11:34 AM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
joeinco - 2005-04-19 10:27 AM but I see it more as a sign of aggressive action on the training/playing field...

I don't really have a preference, but I certainly don't mind them - and I like the idea of scars because it implys a woman who is not afraid to get after it and is no wilting flower. I'm vaguely attracted to women with bruises on their legs too. I think of all the things (must. control. bad. welshy), athletic things, they're doing and know there is at least a lifestyle fit....
2005-04-19 11:40 AM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
Of Course, scars are cool....and how else do you think that implants are put in..they have to cut somewhere.


2005-04-19 12:09 PM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
I don't have a problem with scars...I've got a few good ones myself with the stories to go along.  But I also wouldn't say that I prefer scars on women...if they are there then fine but it's not like they are a turn on.
2005-04-19 12:21 PM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?

"Of Course, scars are cool....and how else do you think that implants are put in..they have to cut somewhere."

And next will be the obligatory: THIS THREAD IS WORTHLESS WITHOUT PICUTRES!

2005-04-19 12:26 PM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
Funny thing... about a month ago at a family gathering, my grandmother came up to me, and without preamble stated (loudly, for everyone at the party to hear), "No man will ever want to marry you with all those scars you have!" (I've got some fun ones on my legs from softball, and a matching set on my arm from breaking it two years ago) My poor grandmother spends a lot of her time worrying about who's going to take care of me when I'm old because I'm not married yet... has blamed it on everything from my lack of domestic skills to my obstinancy... and now she's found a new (perfectly logical -- to her) reason for my un-marriedness.

Now I'll just have to point her at this thread and tell here that there are at least FOUR guys (as of the voting thus far) who don't mind scars on a woman. I'm sure that'll put her mind at ease.
2005-04-19 12:29 PM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?

I'm with andyc too. I'll (did) take a fit, active woman with something to show for it who I can make my princess over a sedentary self appointed princess any day.

2005-04-19 12:40 PM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
I agree with others in that I am attracted to active women and that in itself brings cuts, bruises, scars, etc. from being active There's simply no way around it. Plus there is much more to women than their physical appearance.



2005-04-19 12:42 PM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
I wouldn't say I like scars per se, but I don't not like them, and I like tomboys Scars are often an indication of courage, which I also like. Scars often evoke compassion in me for the pain involved, which softens my heart toward the person.

Just like every other feature of the body, scars are part of who we are. And they usually have some great stories that go along with them!
2005-04-19 12:52 PM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
i voted a hopeful 'yes' on behalf of my husband, before i remembered that he's now on bt! so, bill, post! post!

i have so many scars. many of them i had before i met my husband, but a few i've acquired since we met (or even while in his company). almost all have a good story behind them ('this one i got while winter biking in minnesota, and this one i got in vegas...and, well, what happens in vegas, STAYS IN VEGAS!' ).
2005-04-19 1:52 PM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?

I voted yes and want to add an addendum: bruises are cool, too.

I just bought my wife her first road bike with clipless pedals.  She had her obligatory fall the first day and got a HUGE bruise on her behind.  I find myself more attracted to her now because of that bruise.  It's a sign that she's willing to grow with me; not just grow old with me.

2005-04-19 2:14 PM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
sure - If i were a dating man and met a woman with no scars, i'd leave her right in the glass case where i found her.

Scars are just nature's tattoos. All of my 'tattoos' are all-natural. It'll be a lot better as an old man to say, "yep, i got that one about 2:30 in the morning in the middle of a mountain bike race", instead of, "well, see, i was on spring break, and drunk, and spongebob was a popular cartoon then..."
2005-04-19 4:38 PM
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Subject: Damn right we do
I love a chick that can put it down while we are skiing, biking, running or anything outdoors. Scars are the only way to prove you were there!

Mike


2005-04-19 4:50 PM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
Wow, the tide really turned on that poll! There's hope for me and my beatup knees yet!
2005-04-19 6:11 PM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
Speakin of beat up knees, I have been laughing for 2 weeks at the clipless pedal falling stories and thought my time was past. Had a bad fall Sunday on an inclined parking lot. I will have another scar!
Scars on a woman means she probably is acquainted with pain and how to deal with it. A lady who does not "wilt under pressure" so to speak. Scars are sexy especially if she has a good story to go with it!

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2005-04-19 6:15 PM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
Scars or no scars nothing is hotter than a girl/woman who gets out there and get her thing done.. when a girl passes me on the beach running or biking it's a turn on that she's into it or any other sport lol

Jason
2005-04-19 6:22 PM
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Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
My fiance actually really likes me scars. All the ones I've gotten in the last year, since getting my butt off the couch, he remembers when I got them, and tells little stories to complete strangers in the grocery line.
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