Other Resources My Cup of Joe » Do men like scars on women? Rss Feed  
Moderators: k9car363, the bear, DerekL, alicefoeller Reply
 
 
of 2
 
 
Do men like scars on women?
OptionResults
Yes48 Votes - [70.59%]
No20 Votes - [29.41%]

2005-04-19 9:41 PM
in reply to: #144516

User image

Expert
623
500100
Wye Mills, MD
Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
They're better than tattoos in my book.  Unless, of course, its a big one across the cheek from a bar fight.


2005-04-19 10:05 PM
in reply to: #144937

User image

Resident Curmudgeon
25290
50005000500050005000100100252525
The Road Back
Gold member
Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?

wyecrab - 2005-04-19 8:41 PM They're better than tattoos in my book.  Unless, of course, its a big one across the cheek from a bar fight.

Hey! I know that chick!

2005-04-19 10:16 PM
in reply to: #144516

User image

Expert
936
50010010010010025
Westchester County NY
Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
I hope so, because if hubby doesn't it's his tough luck.  I've got a nice collection road rash scars on my elbows.  I have matching arthroscopy holes on both shoulders, and a 1.5 inch incision scar on my left shoulder.  Not to mention the small scar on my face where a basel cell carcinoma was removed. (Use that sunscreen!!!)  Fortunately the face scar is hidden by some well placed laugh lines near by.
2005-04-19 10:21 PM
in reply to: #144516

User image

Master
2233
200010010025
Mechanicsburg, PA
Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
Depends on the reason for the scar. Bike wreck? Cool. Chick Fight? Even cooler. Junkie tracks? So incredibly not cool, that I can't fathom it.

-Frank
2005-04-19 10:43 PM
in reply to: #144516


19

Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
What I find humurous is the perceived superficiality of men. Most men who are anywhere worthy of marriage material (meaning responsible & mature in actions and thinking. I know we've just limited the numbers but they are out there) will not even see a scar such as the one you are describing. Granted men are very visually oriented and are initially drawn by a woman's looks/figure. Only those who are out for sex will remain in this stage, of which you really don't want them anyways unless that is what you are only out for as well In reality, friendship, companionship and common interests (physically, intellectually, morally and spiritually) are what creates the ultimate desire for comittment in a man. All people have scars. Some can be seen on the body, some can only be identified with long talks and a lot of quality non-sexual personal time together. When a man truly cares for a woman, superficial scars are a non-issue. Most women are too obsessed with how a man views their body. Most men in love, true love, with a woman will enjoy that woman completely regardless of how big/small she is. They just enjoy quality, uninhibited (this is the key for most athletic men), intimate time with their lover. Now, with that said.....

As an athletic man, I enjoy an athletic woman. I am drawn to the woman who has sweat pouring from her body during training or competition, who is willing to push herself athletically to find her physical limits. A few scars here and there only draw me closer to her because they are signs of what is on the inside of her heart and mind.

Thus are my two cents.

Steve
2005-04-19 11:26 PM
in reply to: #144516

User image

Master
2033
200025
Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
I think they are cool as long as you have a cool story to go with them and it is nothing disfiguring... 8-)


2005-04-20 4:00 AM
in reply to: #144516

User image

Coach
9167
5000200020001002525
Stairway to Seven
Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
I like my scars for the stories that go with them...like the one eyed cat from a Hopi reservation that I rescued from under a house ...one-eyed cats leave big scars!

I also have a nice scar from when I was about 9 and I tried to do my first wheelie on a neighbor kids bicycle, its behind my knee.

My surgery scar I'm not so proud of, but I can't see it so I don't really care about it. It did get noticed during a massage once, and ended up evoking lots of sympathy for poor, poor me

Edited by AdventureBear 2005-04-20 4:03 AM
2005-04-20 4:02 AM
in reply to: #144959

User image

Coach
9167
5000200020001002525
Stairway to Seven
Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
scuba-punk - 2005-04-19 10:21 PM

Depends on the reason for the scar. Bike wreck? Cool. Chick Fight? Even cooler. Junkie tracks? So incredibly not cool, that I can't fathom it.

-Frank


Chick fight? ??? Un cool IMHO. Cool chicks are too cool to fight with each other.
2005-04-20 6:40 AM
in reply to: #144516

User image

Expert
1065
10002525
Montreal
Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
Scars are like stretch marks - signs of a life lived. Not many people like them, but they mark our passage through life. My son already has a few small ones as does my daughter. My wife has some major ones from surgery etecetera and I have a couple of my own. It could be that the younger you are the less likely you are to understand that we are all of us packages of our experiences both physical and mental but as you mature you either come to accept people as they are or become very angry with life its own self.

Kind of a ramblin answer, but put me in the Yes category.

2005-04-20 8:00 AM
in reply to: #144516

User image

Elite
2999
2000500100100100100252525
Hattiesburg, Mississippi
Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
Also depends on where they are and how they got them.
2005-04-20 8:17 AM
in reply to: #144516

Member
47
25
Richmond, Tx
Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
Who cares. Your buying the car not the tires.


2005-04-20 11:33 AM
in reply to: #144516

User image

Champion
6742
5000100050010010025
The Green Between Philadelphia and Pittsburgh
Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
Scars on women? H-O-T.
2005-04-20 2:26 PM
in reply to: #144951

User image

Champion
6627
5000100050010025
Rochester Hills, Michigan
Gold member
Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
the bear - 2005-04-19 10:05 PM

wyecrab - 2005-04-19 8:41 PM They're better than tattoos in my book.  Unless, of course, its a big one across the cheek from a bar fight.

Hey! I know that chick!

You live in Lousiana.  That's ALL the chicks. 

I'm falling  in line with AndyC - there are soooo many things that matter more than scars as far as a woman's attractiveness goes. And the active lifestyle is one of those things, for me, and scars come as part of the package.  They're jes' fine.

2005-08-10 2:26 PM
in reply to: #145364

User image

Giver
18427
5000500050002000100010010010010025
Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?

OK...so first of all, sorry for resurrecting a thread that's been dead for four months, but I just found it, so sue me.

I really, really like scars. I like the tactile quality of them, and I like their stories (cue Jaws music). Scars mean that you've lived your life. Scars mean you've taken chances. Scars mean that you know pain.

My favorite is on the runs from my haifline on the right side of my face to my eyebrow, and continues down my upper lip. I got it when some kid fell off his surfboard in front of me in San Diego, and it shot back into my face, catching me with one of the fins. My brother and I had been in the water for all of 10 minutes when it happened...he took one look at me and said "we have to go in." Got back to the beach and up to his car to take a look in the mirror to find the big gash running down my face. Didn't bleed much, though (probably from the cold water). We got back to Joe's apartment where I awakened my soon-to-be-wife (we eloped from Atlanta and were staying with my brother and his wife). As Amy opened her eyes, I knelt close and asked her if she could see my brain. She scrunched up her face, rolled over, and went back to sleep without saing a word.

Since we got married the next day, all of our wedding pictures feature my big bloody gash.

2005-08-10 7:53 PM
in reply to: #144516

User image

Master
1462
10001001001001002525
Michigan
Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
As long as it doesn't look like Freddy Kruger hacked away at their face.
2005-08-10 8:06 PM
in reply to: #144516

User image

Veteran
147
10025
Carlsbad, CA
Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
My wife has an awesome scar on her neck and she is HOT!!!


2005-08-11 6:05 AM
in reply to: #144516

New user
2

Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women?
From a guy who's had heart surgery 3 times, scars on women are HOT!!! And the ones they get from surgery are the best cause it shows that they're just as tough as I am.
New Thread
Other Resources My Cup of Joe » Do men like scars on women? Rss Feed  
 
 
of 2