Subject: RE: Do men like scars on women? What I find humurous is the perceived superficiality of men. Most men who are anywhere worthy of marriage material (meaning responsible & mature in actions and thinking. I know we've just limited the numbers but they are out there ) will not even see a scar such as the one you are describing. Granted men are very visually oriented and are initially drawn by a woman's looks/figure. Only those who are out for sex will remain in this stage, of which you really don't want them anyways unless that is what you are only out for as well In reality, friendship, companionship and common interests (physically, intellectually, morally and spiritually ) are what creates the ultimate desire for comittment in a man. All people have scars. Some can be seen on the body, some can only be identified with long talks and a lot of quality non-sexual personal time together. When a man truly cares for a woman, superficial scars are a non-issue. Most women are too obsessed with how a man views their body. Most men in love, true love, with a woman will enjoy that woman completely regardless of how big/small she is. They just enjoy quality, uninhibited (this is the key for most athletic men ), intimate time with their lover. Now, with that said.....
As an athletic man, I enjoy an athletic woman. I am drawn to the woman who has sweat pouring from her body during training or competition, who is willing to push herself athletically to find her physical limits. A few scars here and there only draw me closer to her because they are signs of what is on the inside of her heart and mind.
Thus are my two cents.
Steve
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